flirting with a man who can actually hold a conversation is dangerous.
the intelligence, the wit, the confidence, the way he says something simple and suddenly you’re sitting there like… oh, you’re attractive attractive. 😭
yeah, mental stimulation will get me every time.
dating someone who naturally brings out your silly side, makes you laugh until your stomach hurts, keeps flirting with you even after you’re already together, and gives you a little extra love on the days you struggle to love yourself is such a deep kind of safety.
you feel secure enough to be completely yourself, and somehow you just fall even harder.
i do yearn for someone who’s curious and passionate about learning my mind and everything that shaped me to be exactly how i am now but forcing connections just to feel that reciprocity goes against my morals, i can’t ever force any connection
trauma makes you tolerate people who treat you poorly because you’re afraid of losing them.
healing makes you realise that you should be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone.
I’m not meant for someone nonchalant. I love too loudly, i love corny stuff, i love acting goofy, i love deep conversations, i love laughing out loudly, i love hearing about your day, i love compliments and i love knowing you the way no one else does.
The day you become afraid to text your partner because you don't want to seem "too much" is the day you should question whether you're in an emotionally safe relationship.
I want to be so comfortable financially that gifting my loved ones becomes second nature.
“You passed”
Dinner’s on me.
“You bought a car?”
Let me buy you fuel
Gifting my loved ones would honestly make me so happy.
Mna bafazi if you see my man cheating PLEASE! VIDEO CALL ME AND GIVE THAT MAN THE PHONE. Take pictures and send to me. Sana cause a scene!!! “YOU ARE CHEATING ON MY FRIEND!”😭 something because this is exactly how I’d defend my girls man. Amadoda asile 😂
I love being a ray of sunshine. I don’t want to be in anybody’s life making it harder. If I ever am, cut me off. I’d rather be remembered for bringing peace, kindness, and good energy than for adding weight to someone’s shoulders.