@bohlokoa711@YSarjou@MDNnewss Because when you marry someone you marry them with everything they are and have , it's Ubuntu you guys can't justify rejecting kids when marriages happens nithi akahlangene it's an outside kid but it's her husbands blood who because of marriage should be loved as well
@YSarjou@MDNnewss She is just as nasty and disgusting as her man . Nonkus feelings and her family feelings were valid, You don't just marry a man and live happily ever after knowing well he has rejected blood. He's not here anymore his wife has to answer for him and even pay on his behalf
@YSarjou@MDNnewss Nami I'm always so shocked when people side with Ayanda like she's the victim when Nothile is . She married Sfiso and she knew he had a child that was rejected and unwanted and she played along to that with him . She's never been accommodating towards Nothiles situation.
@FavouredBecky25@Fikz_the_Cook Siyafana babe 😂 laba abakwazi ukuhlukanisa mom and child if he hates you best believe naleyongane yakho that's his uyayizonda your baby to him is an extension or another version of you so uma ekuzonda he will make sure ukuthi ingane ayizwise ubhlungu.
@MissNocpho@Fikz_the_Cook Find comfort in the fact that he's dead , go to therapy and start to rebuild your life again . He can never hurt you anymore he's not here but you keep hurting yourself by allowing hurtful memories of him from the past takeover your life. He's gone , khohlwa ispoki uphile babe
@mduduzzee_dube@Fikz_the_Cook They purposely block that connection. They don't even want your child near his family and relatives they want children growing up questioning their identities and feeling rejected that's what they want and love so they'll make sure that even their families reject that kid as well
@PhahlaneLindiwe@Fikz_the_Cook Exactly. Men don't care that being absent fathers hurts so many people. They actually enjoy the fact that they have children longing and crying for them when they're nowhere to be seen. Just pray and ask God for strength in helping you raise happy healthy kids uphume kulaba
@23Ciwe@Maqhawe_Ngubane Kthiwa ibalula , when you're carrying the baby ingabi nesisindo iphephuke and older people can tell ukuthi yeqiwe the parents didn't wait long enough before doing the deed
@Mpume_Luv People think that marriage is this magic experience that somehow fixes the characters of these disgusting and inconsiderate men . That they automatically become good people and change for the better once they marry you