SimPhiwe

[Flick Odyssey @flickodyssey]

Everything looked perfect… until she started questioning what was real. Don’t Worry Darling 🎬

[Bhut’ Masasa @MsMasasa]

Don’t forget our sisters in Kempton Park! The news cycle may have ran its course but please don’t forget them, don’t stop talking about them. Remember them, please 💜💜💜💜

[Laone🪻 @KgaLaon]

🫡I am glad Nompumelelo withheld sex from Hlulani.

#MarriedAtFirstSightMzansi

[⛓️ @swampworship]

No one cared about this when I posted it the first time, but maybe they will care now. Another snuff film-making serial killer found with thousands of images and videos of mostly Alaskan Native women. He is from South Africa.

[Motlatsi Abundance @motlatsi_n]

Also, this thing of casting gay men and not pairing them with other men? 🚮

The next thing they are toxic and insensitive to the ladies there 😔

#MarriedAtFirstSightMzansi

[SimPhiwe @PhiweSheda]

@zan_deee When?

[VirgoLady ♍🌻 @Tebogo16_09]

Lobaba is spitting facts only 🤌🤌🤌

[tumi @tumifuego]

how it feels opening twitter today as a ronaldo fan

[Tomi Rikhotso @TomiRikhotso]

When I send you this just know I’m saying it’s not gonna work out. We are incompatible.

[Ofentse Donald Davhie @DonaldDavhie]

Hamba nathi Mkhululi wethu 🇿🇦

[THA GREAT 🇿🇦 @MashBeatz_]

NATIONAL ANTHEM 🇿🇦

[Liana: @LianaPlease]

A lot of y’all’s behavior starts making sense when I remember some people are just out here completely undiagnosed

[🌙 @_Nwai]

I always tell my friends to let me fall apart, let me unravel and be senseless. I promise I'll come back.

That's how I transmute pain.

[Colourmesim @Simphiwe__M]

Incase anyone who can change my life sees this- hi my name is Simphiwe Mbatha. Welcomes to ‘Makeup Inspired by African Flags’ PART 1. 39 flags that are love letters to each country. Part 2 coming soon ❤️🌍🇿🇦 #colourmesim

[Crazy Kennar @crazy_kennar]

IMMIGRATION OFFICERS TREATING PEOPLE DIFFERENTLY BASED ON THEIR PASSPORTS 😂😂😂😂😂

[Kéne @AtuanyaKene]

There’s a level of disrespect that permanently changes how soft I can be with you.

[Charlee @4Charleee]

I love seeing more women admit they’d rather be single than keep settling for low effort, disrespect and emotionally draining relationships. A lot of women are finally realizing loneliness hurts less than betraying yourself to keep a man.

[Thato @Tidoo_Wax]

This is why I'm single 😭

[Rage🌸✨️ @softangrygirl]

1. Can I afford my children alone financially, emotionally, and physically, if my partner ever becomes absent, unreliable, or disengaged?

2. Have I considered the reality that I may not always experience “a marriage as a couple,” but instead a situation where I carry most of the responsibility alone?

3. Do I understand that children are not only emotional responsibilities, but also long-term financial and physical commitments that require consistent support?

4. How responsive is my partner to small, everyday requests for help?
When I ask him to assist with simple things, does he respond willingly and consistently or does he delay, avoid, or forget until I handle it myself?

5. Does he use weaponized incompetence, making tasks harder or incomplete so I eventually stop asking him?

6. If I ask him to do something simple like an errand or picking something up, does he see it as shared responsibility or as a burden?

7. Does he take initiative in supporting the home, or do I have to constantly remind, manage, and direct him?

8. Am I entering a partnership where responsibility is shared or one where I will carry most of the mental, emotional, and physical load?

9. If I became overwhelmed, sick, or unavailable, would the household and children still be properly cared for?

10. Am I choosing someone who is emotionally and practically reliable or someone I will constantly have to compensate for?

11. Am I preparing for a true partnership or slowly stepping into single parenthood while still married?

12. When I am overwhelmed or exhausted, does he support me or do I still end up managing his emotions too?

13. Can I be vulnerable with him without being dismissed, ignored, or emotionally burdened further?

14. When there is conflict, does he take accountability or do I end up fixing everything emotionally?

15. Does he apologize with real behavioural change or repeat the same patterns after saying sorry?

16. Does he avoid difficult conversations until I initiate them every time?

17. Do I feel respected in my voice, boundaries, and decisions or constantly challenged and undermined?

18. Does he treat me as an equal partner or as someone expected to carry emotional and domestic labor?

19. Is he consistent in his actions, or only helpful when it suits him?

20. Can I rely on him under pressure, or does everything fall on me during difficult times?

21. Am I attracted to who he is todayor who I hope he will become?
If nothing about him changed for the next 10 years, would I still choose this relationship?

[SimPhiwe @PhiweSheda]

@nosi____ Ngaze nganyanya😭