The last time I was home for Christmas was in 2021, and the last time I attended a wedding was in 2023; and that was for someone I didn’t even know. A mutual friend invited me, and I only went because before 2023, the last wedding I attended was way back in 2018 😂😭
The sea is my home.
“I want to work at sea”, this is what you’re signing up for.
Why’s everyone surprised about people dying? They’re old, 80+. They’ve live a fulfilled life. They’ve lived beyond human life expectancy. That’s the circle of life.
I know we will miss them, but we can’t help it.
This is proof that men are deeply attention deprived. And that’s why it’s easy for men to fall in love when the slightest attention, love, or care is shown to us by a woman, because we don’t often get it from people.
We’re largely loved and respected based on what we can offer.
This is not an attack on you or an agenda, it’s a psychological observation that truly happens.
The POS lady in my area who greets me every morning and asks about my day on my way back most days, I find myself patronising her more. As a matter of fact, I’ll intentionally pass through that road just to patronise her! Maybe our parents were right; maybe courtesy and greeting really do go a long way!
And before you start an agenda, no, there’s nothing more to it.
I’ve this principle: if someone is celebrating something, say a birthday, wedding, or any other occasion and person didn’t post about it, I won’t post about it either. I’ll just celebrate with them quietly.
A stance I’ll forever hold. Modesty is the highest form of sophistication.
And as man, if you’ve a modest and slim woman in your life, you’re a man highly favored by God.