@lazygetsu@DavidEdgington What do you mean unconditional submission can cause us to sin against God. And the bible asks women are to submit to their husbands
@belabela9000@LisaBritton If that’s her preference then you should also understand why men tell other men not to be this nice guy that women don’t respect
To the fellas you cannot control a woman, let her choose her behavior herself. Just observe and make your decision. If she’s meant to be in your life she will be aligned with your program naturally
Broke bitches requiring wealth to be approached, Single Moms desiring childless niggas only, Fat women repulsed by fat men, etc. and y'all swear Women don't have double standards LMAOOOO
Woke up this morning thinking about the quality of life I’m living in this country, literally all my life I’ve been conditioned to live this way, this isn’t the life meant for me as Nigerian.
In the last 48 hrs I’ve not had light for close to 2hrs, dawg this isn’t life… me and my flatmates been burning money on fuel, it’s crazy, can’t cook cos there’s no light to even store the food.
I have been house hunting since September and all I have been seeing is stupid houses with ridiculous prices, no way I’m going to be paying millions of naira on bare minimum apartments.
Jesus Christ, one of my friends wey japa go UK for January him qualify of life don change, you don’t even need to tell me I can see it from his IG stories, I’m here shirtless while typing this stupid tweet blowing myself with my shirt cos heat wan kill me.
Today I’ll go to work and come back and meet no light still and think of buying fuel for another 900 naira per liter, do you know how insane that is, my dad already had me at this age and already building his own house.
Fuck Nigeria mehn, I’m not the type to crash out but I woke up thinking about the quality of life I’m living and it’s so fucking sad. Fuck all of you involved in this shit hole of a county, I fucking hate you all. Fuck APC too, Fuck me & Fuck U too cos we are way too scared to demand a better life for us and for our unborn kids.
I’m not asking for too much just the basic things dawg, the fucking basic things to live a comfortable life, why can’t my own country government give me that, do I have to Japa, how many people fit japa. We really gotta make things work mehn cos this country is damaged.
The logic is simple.
When I was single, I was covering my bills, cooking for myself and I cook very well, sorting my home, organizing my life. I am a very organized person. Yomyom swears I have OCD, but I don’t. I just like my place neat and organized. I’ve always had peace in my life.
Why would I now enter relationship where I’m just there to carry burden while you just relax? Why would I enter a relationship and my life was better when I was single? You’re coming into my peace. You bring your own income and your values and we scale up together. If I wanted to adopt kids or run charity, I know how to go about it. Relationship and Marriage are responsibility. You devote all of yourself to your partner and your relationship, and your partner does same. No exception! If you’re the only one giving, it is not a love story.
To love is to give love and to receive love.
- Chimamanda Adichie