Very happy to announce I’ve been this friend for many of my thinner friends once upon a time and every single one of them asked me to do it because the dudes were fucking creeps
Vocal men are top tier. Imagine telling you how much they love you, point out your wrong doings in a nice tone, never invalidate your feelings, communicate with you when you hurt them, and telling how worthy you are and how much you mean to them.
I’m a romantic. I love romance and to be romanced. Thoughtful gestures, even little ones, handwritten notes, small gifts, sweet surprises, attentive actions. I give love like this & I like receiving love like this, so yes; being w/ someone who values romance is really it for me.