Have you ever tried Black folks food, and then thought, "damn, I wish I could make this?"
The power of being in relationship and uplifting others, is that we all benefit.
It's not the ones that agree that matter most. It's the ones that disagree either. It's the ones that listen, entertain, ask from a place of curiosity, and desire the fullest you that you can imagine...
Lacking nuance and then calling others difficult isn't the answer... folks are often happy to help, but can't be accountable for your lack of complexity.