@crushed2death oh i guess that would be another debate then cause i consider identiying as a girl in this way to be what it means to be transgender but i guess gerard mgiht not consider herself transgender despite that?
@patronsaintabe@knottedhairs she does outright say that though. "i consdiered myself to be more of a girl" "i identify with trans people and women alot" "i have always identifed a fair amount with the female gender"
like idk what more needs to be said here
https://t.co/64OFuCn0sY
@patronsaintabe@knottedhairs so, from the video ur replying to:
heres her twice explicitly using the terms gender and/or transgender to say she identifies with womanhood and and instance of her using she/her pronouns jsut to be safe.
@crushed2death so youre saying:
1. gerard at min is/was a woman
2. changing genders doesnt make g transgender because g didnt explicitly say they were trans but identified with trans people
3. it is wrong to use she/her for gerard because of when they said he/they
trying to understand here
@patronsaintabe@knottedhairs i was trying to understand what you said with my own experience big dog. i thought you were saying despite iding as a woman, its wrong to use she/her for g because g said he/they one time. are you arguing against gerard being a woman as well?? how??
@POSTBIOLOGICAL@knottedhairs but it’s not him going by it… it’s a character that’s being played
and.. okay? you do realize projecting yourself onto real people is very parasocial?
@patronsaintabe@knottedhairs so he/they woman gerard? thats fair when i first came out i was a they/them woman for a while. i guess the crux of my point is gerard is a woman then.
with gerard's lola persona i was saying its not unorthodox to use she/her for gerard since g's gone by it before.
@patronsaintabe@knottedhairs again, not even talking about femenity or gender expression here but gender identity. she says she identifies with trans women and the female gender explicity.
also ur exposing urself a bit here cause yes that last pic is gerard on her lola acct for hesitant alien
@usurpbeatrice@knottedhairs call me jobless all you want as long as youre not calling me wrong. im sadly chronically employed doing construciton rn its brutal i wish i could work at starbies
@patronsaintabe@knottedhairs so, from the video ur replying to:
heres her twice explicitly using the terms gender and/or transgender to say she identifies with womanhood and and instance of her using she/her pronouns jsut to be safe.
@knottedhairs ur tweet lowk kinda pissed me off bad so i made a presentation explaining her coming out if u wanna watch i just needed to do this cause im autistic lowk
@knottedhairs ur tweet lowk kinda pissed me off bad so i made a presentation explaining her coming out if u wanna watch i just needed to do this cause im autistic lowk
@knottedhairs ive actually mostly had to argue against trans mascs saying she isnt. there was tumblr discourse that saying gerard way is trans fem is trans masc erasure because shes common transition goals for trans men LOL