@Paschanista You could’ve also said “Im available (at whatever time/date)” and he still would have had to make a plan but he wouldnt keep checking. Yall low-key belong together lol
Niggas arguing if black men are hard to love because one woman who practices stripperrobics on a children’s app projected her situationship struggles and bad decisions? Okay.
Black men are expected to be providers, protectors, emotionally bulletproof, sexually confident, financially successful, physically strong, & mentally unbothered.
& the minute one of them admits he’s tired, hurt, insecure, lonely, or simply wants to be loved without having to perform some version of masculinity first, suddenly it’s “black men are hard to love”.
europeans and white americans fighting to use ebonics while black americans have to learn codeswitching from birth because aave is considered “unprofessional” and “ghetto” only when it’s used by black people
@Algaarade@0803006_@ImBea06@xannekix@MarvLmk You should have the respect for other cultures that you want people to have for yours so you don’t even need to split those hairs. If an African American person is telling you about AAVE it’s time to listen not to speak. Same way if a German is talking about schnitzel or whatever
@Algaarade@0803006_@ImBea06@xannekix@MarvLmk That was the whole point, you look up to this, your find this sensational, you take the time and have the desire to learn it. Theres no superiority in that, you don’t get to have authority off of that and it doesn’t mean you can disregard this culture like any other culture.
@MissInfoShow__@KeyzKrook@_KingArii You said you don’t see white men participating in something they literally created & actively developed as an attempt to rebuttal. He redirected you to the information that they in fact, founded the “red pill” & its content/spaces. So you were wrong, the next step is to admit it
Alot of women only recognize a Black man’s feelings when they become anger. Y’all ignore the exhaustion, the disappointment, the loneliness, the rejection, and the fear until it finally comes out as frustration. Then you point to the frustration as proof that he is dangerous or impossible to love.