tbh i can never sympathise with men. how are you still a loser in a system that has literally favoured you over everyone and everything since the dawn of time ????
It’s a MASSIVE ick to see a man still being super friendly and nice to people who have openly disrespected their partner. It shows that the man has no backbone & can’t be counted on to support or defend their partner and/or future family. Eeeeyuck.
a girl on tik tok just said "i would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and i think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
One day, I’ll be loved, and not lusted over. I’ll be loved, not by mouth, but by effort & action. To be seen, heard, understood & considered in all decisions. I’ll be loved fully & not non-chalantly. I’ll be love and trusted. I’ll be loved without bounds & tenderly cared for.