@BoltMan520@KO_Sequence Matt just shut the fuck up respectfully! You and people with the same mentality within ur race are and have been what is wrong with this world. Y’all love provoking others then turn around to point fingers and victim blame when y’all finally get the reaction yall came looking for
If your vibration is higher than your environment, partner, social circle, etc. — it becomes spiritually unfavorable & even unsafe. If you don’t willingly leave, you’ll be forced to leave jobs, people, places… The Universe will push you out & into something better. This is Love.
I hate when someone tries to strong arm me into giving them grace. You gotta let me decide that. Don't do something to me and then gaslight me into seeing it from your perspective. A lot of people do that shit and i find it wildly audacious
This is how a child loses trust in their parents;
- Asks a genuine question. Gets dismissed.
- Shares excitement about something. Gets mocked.
- Comes home with a problem. Gets lectured instead of heard.
- Cries. Gets told to stop being dramatic.
- Fails at something. Gets compared to someone else.
- Achieves something. Parents barely look up.
- Tries to talk. Parent is on the phone.
- Learns that home is not a safe place to be honest.
- Starts hiding things.
- No quality time. Only correction.
- No "I'm proud of you" without a condition attached.
- No listening without an agenda.
- No apology when the parent is wrong.
- No curiosity about who the child actually is.
- Child raises themselves emotionally.
- Grows up. Moves away as fast as possible.
- Calls home out of obligation, not love.
- Becomes a stranger who shares blood.
And the parent wonders why their child never opens up.
To raise a child who actually trusts you, do this;
- Put the phone down and look them in the eyes when they talk.
- Ask questions about their world without judging the answers.
- Apologize when you're wrong. They're watching everything.
- Celebrate who they are, not just what they achieve.
- Make home the safest place they know.
- Listen to understand, not to respond.
- Show up to the small moments. Those are the big ones.
- Tell them you love them without them having to earn it.
- Be the person they run to, not from.
NON-NEGOTIABLE.
Just because a man is a good man does not automatically make him good enough for you.
Just because it's the best you've been treated by a man so far, does not mean that's the best treatment you can ever get from a man.
Never settle for good enough.
Latto pregnant.
Chuck Norris passed.
Marlo dating Tyler Perry.
Usher vs Justin Bieber
TSA lines look like lunch time on Skid Row.
ABC paused The Bachelorette.
Bravo paused RHOM.
The gumbo. The Julez. The dress code.
Sterling K Brown told JHud he be [gooning].
When you are a woman who is very aware of your power, you cannot afford to let just anyone get close to you. A lot of people will come around trying to humble you or disrupt what you have. Your discernment has to stay sharp.
I honestly think this is my last season of watching #RHOSLC. Lisa and Meredith have honestly become so unbearable with the lying, deflecting and playing the victim’s it’s no longer fun to watch. At their age their behaviours are concerning. 😵💫😳🥴
My advice for 2026 is to become your own dream woman.
That's how you will become everyone else's.
Pour into yourself HEAVY.
Become more self-absorbed.
Workout.
Eat cleaner.
Limit the alcohol.
Get dressed up often.
Go outside and be seen.
Get new hobbies.
Live your best life!
“You are the full price. The luxury. The divine original. Not everyone will be able to afford the experience of you, and that's exactly how it should be.” ✨