i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.
i like that "morning baby” kinda relationship from a ngga, the no games, great communication, lot of love making, lots of kissing, lot of cuddling, lots of flirting, lots of being goofy kind of relationship. that makes U want to run 100 miles, read books clean up your bad habits kind of love
When a man is serious about you, there’s no competition and no confusion. Nobody can push him away not his friends, not his ex, not even YOU on your “leave me alone” days. A man who wants you will choose you loud and clear every single time.
YOU CAN’T BUILD A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IF YOU AVOID EVERY HARD CONVERSATION.
Shutting down, changing the subject, or walking away the moment things get uncomfortable isn’t maturity. It’s avoidance. Real growth is being able to sit in discomfort without turning it into distance. Grown love requires two people who can talk through it not run from it.
I’m working on myself as a woman, I’m working on my patience, my anger, my ways, my mindset, my language, and everything.. I will be a better woman all around and that’s for ME. 💕
When I’m loved correctly, there’s literally nothing I wouldn’t do for my man 🥺😮💨 I love being a girl. I love being soft. I love being feminine. I don’t enjoy being triggered, angry, or yelling. That’s not who I am. I like who I become when I feel safe, chosen, and loved properly♥️
To the woman reading this, give yourself the chance to be loved by someone new. Don’t go back to someone who had every opportunity to love you and still chose to lose you.
Never again will I pretend to be the easygoing, low-maintenance girl. I like flowers & random acts of kindness I don't have to ask for. I like random "thinking of you" texts & sweet check-ins. I like forehead kisses & good morning texts. I like being taken on thoughtful dates I didn't have to plan. I like being shown off, like someone you're proud to have. I like affection, intentional time & little surprises. I like being loved loudly & I'm done shrinking myself to be “easier to love”. 🤍