Told this Xhosa Girl I wanna take her out on a date and she told she'll rather come to my place and cook for us and I give her the R1000 I was gonna spend on the date and I'm not gonna lie I respect that, A Proper whore!!!!!!!!
I'm a type C person I can wake up at 5am. I can wake up at 1pm.
I can work for 15 hrs straight, or I can do nothing for 3 days. text back in 0.5 secs or 2 weeks later. love being alone but hate feeling lonely. overthink everything, then end up saying it is what it is.
Normalise giving up on people when their actions keep showing you who they are. Stop romanticising their potential, excusing their behaviour or holding onto the version of them you wish they’d become. Accept people as they are and give yourself permission to walk away when who they are no longer aligns with what you deserve.
some people are so spiritually grounded that they can sense envy, insecurity, and bad intentions without needing anyone to say a word. that’s why they’re genuinely comfortable being alone.
No one wants to hear this but sometimes it’s your fault. Your life isn’t good and it’s your fault. You made bad decisions/ choices and sadly, these are the consequences of your actions.
Modern dating really shows you how little people give a fuck about your feelings, someone will talk to you every day, build a whole connection, make you feel seen, heard, and valued, and then switch up out of nowhere like none of that ever mattered, leaving you to sit there wondering how it was so easy for them to just not care.