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๐ I'm striving to become better than I was yesterday...๐
I live my truth wherever I go!๐คท
It was never about the money... And that's what a lot of people dragging this issue fails to understand.
Is โฆ50k enough to run a home? Big NO! But is Is โฆ50k enough to show INTENTION? YES.
A man must not become a parasite in his own house,,, Provision is not about how much you have it is about what you are willing to give. A man who earns little & still gives,
is announcing something to his wife that look โIf I had more, you would not beg.โ And that message is heavier than what you bring to the table as a man at home.
That โฆ50k is not feeding the house,,, it is saying โI am still responsible.โ or โI am not waiting for you to save me from myself.โ That kind of man will always be respected even when his pocket is small. Because respect is not built on income, it is built on INTENTION.
The whole idea of "A man's money is our money" is not about feeding the home,,, it's about feeding RESPECT. Many of you men still don't know women oooo... Let people who have lived with them for a long time tell you more about them. The danger is not that a woman earns more. The danger is when a man starts feeling entitled to her earnings. When he begins to think that โSince you have, you should carry everything.โ That is not partnership. That is what I'll call ABDICATION.
A man does not lose leadership because he earns less. He loses leadership when he stops trying. I know some women can carry weight but she must never carry a lazy spirit.
So don't think Pastor Paul or Agba are teaching FINANCE,,, Incase you want to argue like an economist,,, they are teaching POSTURE. That even when you are behind, stand like a man going forward. Because the home does not collapse when the woman earns more,,, it only collapses when the man stops trying.
Provision is not a number but a mindset. And any man who understands that will never lose his place,,, even when life humbles his pocket.
@incnonez@instablog9ja Na debt straight they want them to enter o!๐ซ
If only they can just have the courage like the woman from the context and just bury their dad without all these things.
@incnonez@instablog9ja Like I never comprehend that eating and drinking is valid in funeral events, I thought we're all here to mourn?๐คฆ๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ
@feyiszn There was a season where na married men they disturbed me up and down.
I run to God for prayers to deliver me, now they see me as a tree and I'm safe!๐๐ฝ๐
The Church must:
- Make disciples,
not consumers.
- Preach the Bible,
not opinions.
- Plan theological worship services,
not theatrical ones.
- Make Jesus famous,
not ourselves.
- Expand Godโs Kingdom,
not our brand.
- Be ambassadors of Christ,
not causes.
First and foremost, the only way to overcome prayerlessness is to keep praying. There is no shortcut. Prayerlessness is defeated by consistency in prayer, even when it feels dry.
Secondly, feeding yourself with prayer chants and prayer sounds helps a lot. Watching videos that stir your spirit to pray can reignite your hunger and posture your heart toward God.
Thirdly, attend corporate prayer meetings. This helps me a lot. Corporate gatherings help to ignite your personal prayer altar through the corporate anointing. Each time you struggle to pray, make sure you place yourself in a community of believers where your spirit can be stirred.
Fourthly, take away distractions. Many times, our struggle with prayer is not spiritual weakness but distraction and overwhelm. Be intentional about setting time aside to pray and deliberately remove anything that competes for your attention.
Fifth, spend more time studying the Word. Prayer and the Word go hand in hand. Studying Godโs Word will stir you to pray, and prayer will stir your hunger for the Word.
Sixth, start small until you get back on track. It does not matter how long you used to pray before. Begin again from where you are and build momentum gradually.
Seventh, spend time worshiping and remaining in Godโs presence. The atmosphere you surround yourself with matters. Many times, prayerlessness is a result of the wrong atmosphere. The Holy Ghost will quicken you to pray, but you must avail yourself.
Eight, have a prayer partner. Praying together with someone will stir you up to pray. Also reach out to someone that can pray for you. This will go a long way in reviving your prayer altar.
Last Day of the Year
Be intentional about what you want to achieve next year. Write it down
Break it down into stages and phases. Where you want to be and how you want to get there. Don't underestimate the psychological importance of having your goals "carved in stone".
If you plan to start working out next year. Break down what you assume would be progress using a calendar and mark it
If you plan to learn a skill, set milestones and pen down the costs of learning
If you plan to start up a business, write down the costs, estimated timeline and expected results
Next year is not a year to let things flow
It's not a year to "Man proposes but God disposes". Have your eyes on the goal and march towards it
And I wish us success in 2026๐
@HenshawKate Maami, to my greatest surprise, some guys under a particular tweet where this video was also posted, were discussing what they think he should have done with the access he was given.
A lot of youths are criminally minded and they are not hiding it anymore. See๐๐
@theGIRLScare Small intimate wedding, not for me and hubby o, not for general congratulations!
I wan carry my wedding go where you have to take flight go or you stay back in Nigeria when we're back you'll see photos and videos.