ngl, i’ve always found overly private relationships a bit weird. like why aren’t you loving your partner out loud? you ain’t posting them, you ain’t flirting in the comments, you don’t like or repost their stuff. it’s those little things that just seem strange to me honestly.
You don’t deserve to be a “not right now, later.”
You deserve to be a “yes, I’m scared, but I do want to.”
“I need to heal, but I don’t want to lose you.”
You deserve to be the reason someone faces their fears and goes all in for you. Of course you’re worth it—and I understood it all.
most attractive things a man can do:
handwritten love letters
a photo of you in his wallet
something thoughtful and cute
flowers
paying attention to you
talk in a soft tone
rub your cheek
telling you "its okay"
double texting
reassurance
"this reminded me of you"
I’m not built for casual relationships and flings.
I respect people who enjoy this and can separate emotions from it.I know myself
I get attached, I invest deeply, I care intentionally.
And pretending not to feel would only break me in the end.
-Strictly no communication with your ex's
- Flowers every month
- Dates are mandatory
- No going to bed while we're upset at each other
- I expect updates when you're out w friends
- Speaking to me respectfully even when you're upset is important
These are basics.
when you choose to settle on a less than satisfactory person to have kids with; remember that you’re not just compromising on a partner. you’re also robbing your children of a thoughtful, present, active, and spontaneous father.
they deserve a shot at experiencing a great dad.