@fedtriyahya Culture “sidai org”. Family aku semua jenis on time. Aku still curious sampai skrg,yg jenis kaki sidai ni tak rasa guilty ke buat org menunggu.
normalize giving up on people. No more seeing the best in them, no more excusing their behavior. Accept them as they are and reject them. If they wanted to appreciate you, they would’ve already.
Today I learned that people get more carsick in EVs
If you have felt like want to vomit riding in a Tesla or BYD and thought you were imagining it, you are not.
Electric vehicles cause more frequent and more severe motion sickness than petrol cars. A study back in 2024 found symptoms were 10 to 30 percent more intense. Back-seat passengers suffer the most.
Three reasons.
No engine sound.
Your brain has been trained to associate engine revving with acceleration. EVs are silent. Your brain gets no warning of the motion about to hit.
Instant torque.
Electric motors deliver maximum torque immediately. Petrol engines build up gradually. An EV accelerating from a traffic light reaches highway speed way quicker.
Regenerative braking.
The main culprit. When the driver lifts off the accelerator, the motor reverses into a generator to recapture energy. The deceleration this creates happens at roughly 0.2 Hz, which is almost exactly the frequency that triggers motion sickness.
One-pedal driving makes it worse. In a petrol car you coast between acceleration and braking. In an EV you are constantly accelerating or decelerating. That forward-back rhythm never existed in petrol cars before.
Manufacturers have noticed. Tesla, BYD, and MG let you reduce regen braking. Xiaomi's YU7 introduced a dedicated motion sickness mode. Mercedes has simulated V8 engine sounds so the audio cues reduce motion sickness.
If you get sick in an EV, three practical moves.
Reduce regen braking in settings.
Sit in the front.
Look far ahead, not at your phone.
Have you noticed this while sitting in an EV?
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LOOK: Here's how long the oil reserves of countries and territories in the Asia-Pacific region will last, based on data from BMI as of March 19, 2026.
The Philippine government said its stock of oil will be sufficient for 60 more days.
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It was 8 PM on a Friday, and my partner was dead asleep on the living room sofa, still in his work clothes.
I was on FaceTime with a friend who was getting ready for a massive night out. She asked what my weekend plans were, and I flipped the camera to show him resting.
She sighed, doing her makeup. “Girl, doesn't it bother you? You’re young, it's Friday, and you're just watching a man sleep. You deserve the princess treatment. If he really wanted to take you out and show you off, he would.”
I looked at him. I looked at the dark circles under his eyes and the laptop still open on the coffee table.
What my friend didn’t see was that earlier that week, he had quietly taken over two of my biggest bills so I could afford to take a lower-paying job that I actually loved. He had been pulling 14-hour days for months, absorbing all the financial pressure so I could finally breathe.
I didn’t argue with her. I just calmly said,
“He is giving me the soft life. The soft life is me waking up without panic because he goes to war every single day. I’m not going to punish him for returning from that war exhausted.”
The line got quiet. I told her to have fun, hung up, and draped a blanket over him.
The internet has completely warped our idea of what love looks like. It has convinced women that "princess treatment" means endless aesthetic dates, constant entertainment, and a partner who operates with infinite energy.
But a man cannot simultaneously be in the trenches securing your absolute safety, and have the carefree energy of a guy with zero responsibilities.
I realized that night: The ultimate luxury isn't a man who takes you out to be seen. It’s a man who makes your life so incredibly secure that fiercely protecting his rest becomes your biggest priority.
Men don't understand... being a "provider" isn't all about money. It's about providing the EMOTIONAL SECURITY that allows a woman to rest in her FEMININE ENERGY. Money is the icing, not the cake
There is a legend in Italy where young girls were forbidden to walk through tuberose fields at night as its scent was believed to cause erotic thoughts.
Aurélien Guichard created this fragrance to capture the scent of tuberose at night
if you lack emotional intelligence we will never work out fr. i’m not teaching you how to apologize, how to take accountability, or how to treat me with respect. these are basic qualities you should already possess before entering a relationship.
"SET BOUNDARIES"
"SET BOUNDARIES"
What are those BOUNDARIES??
Depending on the lovers involved though, However, these are basic BOUNDARIES to put in place;
1. No interactions with an ex.
2. Whatever issues we have, do not invite a third party unless they are people we Respect and are accountable to.
3. No use of derogatory words even when angry
4. In the event of we having different views about an issue,
it should be noted that; The issue is the issue not you not me. Hence, it is me and you against the issue, not you plus the issue against me. — Got it?
5. No Phone Privacy!! Everything must be laid bare.
Let me stop here....
Rest my pen ✍