As January wraps up, I'm Mutohir, documenting my journey from the month's start.🚀
Learned a ton, and made fantastic connections. Excited about February and meeting new people!
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1) if you allow your wife play part of your roles, you cannot effectively lead her.
2) If you enable a lazy man, he'll low-key resent you & pretend as if he still loves you.
3) A woman that thinks she's capable of loving a man, is bound to make stupid mistakes.
Please read 👇.
If a man mandates his wife to contribute financially to the home, he cannot effectively lead his wife.
Please read this DM from a married woman.
She has honestly narrated her experiences and how she has been treating her husband.
I'll be straight with you all reading.
is going to pretend in public that all is well.
It's not right.
A man shouldn't mandate his wife to contribute financially.
Women are meant to be help meets.
You cannot expect her to play her roles and yours and she will not revolt or force you to
Day 24 of my coding journey🚀
Finally, I completed the authentication for signup and login and added the option to log in with Google💯
Here's the link to the website: https://t.co/A2HW5UOLwe
More on how it works below👇
#buildinpublic#365DaysofCode#webdevelopment#VueJs
If you don't have a meaningful source of income, you have no business getting married whatsoever.
All these students getting married without any source of income should stop, abeg!.
All in the name of "we don't want to commit zinna (fornication)", they will get married and start constituting nuisance to us when reality dawned on them.
It is very simple, don't even bother approaching a lady for a relationship if you are still in school, if actually you don't want to commit zinnah.
Concentrate on your studies, graduate, get a job and then come back to the lady to marry her.
If Allah destined that she is your wife, you will still meet her unmarried, if she is not, vamoose and go try your luck with someone else.
Ewo ni gbogbo rakatia yi gan na 🤷♀️
Ladies, please go and get sense!
You are in 200 level, and he is in 300 level, but because your " DAWAH Ustauz" told you that courtship is Haram, that marriage is better immediately you start loving a man, then Gbam! You carry the boy go home say you want to marry him.
They have kuku told you that a wedding (Nikkah) in the sitting room with less than ten people has more blessings, so in your head, you believe you guys are safe from looking for money for ceremony, cabin biscuit and pure water (sachet water) will come to the rescue.
Upon all the advice your family gave you to make you realise that Nah school dem send you to study, no be to go and be looking for "Dickson" iro ooo, Nah the back of your ears everything fell to, you sha won marry yi naani.
You want to start eating wetin your mama dey eat.
The booda loves you and you love him too, kuma courtship is haram, therefore Ile Oko ya!
Mama pleaded Papa cried, you carry axe 🪓 put for head, and they were forced to send you off.
They beat drum 🥁 for you (won pa ilu fun e), just like my mother used to say "Oni iya nio je eyi to po" (it is the owner of the suffering that will take the most of the sufferings)
and I used to add to it that...
that was in the olden days, you see now, Oni iya nio je gbogbo iya (Nah the owner of the suffering who will experience her sufferness alone, no one will share from it, she will take everything)
Okay...
Now that you are married, following the path of what you were told by your "dawah teacher"; "family planning is haram" and the booda too does not know how to withdraw his "qalam" (pen) from your "igo tada" (ink bottle) A.K.A. Honey pot so that excess ink will not drop inside, he just dey shoot dey go ni. Bullet con dey scatter everywhere.
You kuku know that God is merciful, he just kept putting Barakah in every seed planted in your fertile land. Oyun bade. (Pregnancy don come).
Throughout the nine months, you guys didn't buy a pin for the preparation of the newborn.
You as the "understanding wife" kept saying that Abu is trying because he used to buy you Akara by the junction every night from his pocket money given to him by his parent therefore if he has, he will do but he doesn't have ni.
Now you have no choice but to be calling your family for help as delivery time is near, and as parents they can't watch you their lovely daughter die out of pregnancy and delivery challenges that may arise, then they are forced to bring out money to save your life. Hmmm, awon Abiyamon tooto.
Alhamdulilah, you have delivered a baby boy, just exactly like his dad, after the naming, everybody returned to their houses, you relied on the clothes and money that people gifted you for the baby, and later in the night "Abu" in his sweetest of tongue, sweet talked you and collected all the money you were gifted from you because he was about to start his project and has a small girl too, you don't want to mismanage the money, hence why you gave him.
No food in the house, no milk in the breast, still living in one BQ not too far from the school, you don't even have enough strength to go to school again, even if you go, nothing can enter your head because you are very hungry.
We had a drug case a few years ago and the defendant who came from Nigeria swore and cried profusely that he is not the owner of the drug and sincerely was aware how that drug got to his luggage but none of us believed him
Since I saw this video, I felt maybe, just maybe, we didn't do our best for him and he may have been a victim
🤔🤔
Day 15 of my coding journey🚀
Made my swiper slide responsive in a way I did not like (using multiple media queries).
Also refreshing my memory on vue Options API as I'm taking a test on it later tonight. Wish me luck.📚✨
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🚀 Just wrapped up coding the landing page for my Vue design! Check out the video to see it in action. 🎥
Used some cool tech like Cube CSS, Tailwind, and Swiper JS. Tools discussed👇 #VueJS#WebDevelopment#365DaysofCode
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