Women never wanted men obsessed with them.We wanted devotion.
Obsession is creepy, controlling, manipulative selfish and even dangerous. This is destructive.
Devotion is loyalty, care, nurturing, selfless protective, patience and consistency. This is respect.
I think emotional education should be a real thing, I donโt mean soft skills, I mean things like how to sit with boredom, how to be happy alone, how to protect the heart from persuasion, how to discern intuition, how to ask for feedback, opinions, or advice, how to grieve, etc.
Cardi B said, โI cried for 300 days last year and none of y'all called me up.โ
And that hit home. Because this past year, I cried more than I ever have in my entire life. Silent tears, heavy tears, tears that nobody saw. I carried heartbreak, loneliness, and the weight of trying to hold everything together on my own but managed to get through it. Never Again!
Happy birthday Jesus!!! My saviour thank you for coming to die for me!!! God Iโm so so happy that you chose me!! That you first loved me!!! ๐โจโญ๏ธ๐ซ๐โฅ๏ธ
Christmas time is that time to reflect and ask yourself what you really want.
What truly fulfills?
Christmas is a reminder of Jesus and the free gift of forgiveness only he can offer.
Reflecting on this reminds me of all I have went through
And how he has brought me through it all.
Letting go resentment is hard but when Jesus reveals hisself as willing and able, itโs hard to deny him.
Hope wherever you are you can lean into this love that meets us exactly where we are no matter what.