So nice to give up control and leave yourself to your dominant, the one that gives structure and purpose to your existing. Where you are obidient and that makes you feel alive. You need someone to take over, that is when you are really free, when someone above you, takes control.
"Matriarchy is not patriarchy in heels ๐ We are here to stabilize stuff. We are not taking your rights away, we are giving it back to you with some more supervision.
The whole world does not need more toxic male egos, it needs more emotional regulation. I know some men are scared a bit, but growth is uncomfortable at first. So were skinny jeans, but we get through it. Do you remember? ๐ "
Findom
Iโve noticed that the subs who pay the most are usually the ones who treat me with the most respect. Sure, they get excited and end up spending more because of it, but in my experience, the big spenders genuinely want to know what I enjoy and make an effort not to cross any lines.
findom
I own this man... Always buying me dresses and stuff without asking whether I like them or not, whether I want it or not. He wants to make a good impression, but he doesn't listen to my exact words and needs. I accept some of the gifts, but not all, and I always tell him NOT to do this but he doesn't listen and I hate it, and I have told him many times to ask first, then buy, not to choose instead of me. I am a findom, but you can't just gift your way to me or buy me, I will take your money and your soul, but you can't win me over with any stupid dress or jewelry or shirt like I don't get to choose...
Your purpose must be to serve me, give love, not hoping to buy my love and "service" or to expect gratitude. You are the one to be grateful for my attention. You are the one that must be serving, not the other way around.
I am in charge so I will not be accepting his damn gifts and money anymore, until he starts to listen, obey and serve properly.
Findom
@xLucasLesleyx Good boy... What if your Goddess tied you up on that bed behind you for a few minutes... Just like that. So you can stare at her for a minute when she's on top of you, doing nothing, just being there. And knowing you surrendered your entire control.
@xLucasLesleyx And yet a slight, gentle touch from the Divine can give purpose and meaning, and heal the pain away. And then even the moon feels different
There's a man trying to use the full moon to harm me for years. But he doesn't know I am a Goddess, I love the moon, the moon loves me, I know how to use energy for good, for healing or punishing (return to sender), or just for commanding my inferiors, but never for harm!
Findom
@xLucasLesleyx A full moon contains enormous energy. It could be used for good, or bad (unfortunately), anyway it is risky :) Spilling your blood under it would take a lot of courage, but that's what a man and a sub should be actually - courageous
@bowtojaz Dm me if you want, I might be able to help, depending on what is the reason for the depression. If the reasons are similar to the ones I had, I might be able to help and show you a new, surprising world.
Btw, don't forget you are a woman, a Goddess, you have power within you โค๏ธ
@bowtojaz Sometimes not eating for a couple of days can be good for the body and for the soul (cleansing for both), but make sure you stay hydrated. And no food for too long of course is not ok. Depression is... Awful, and makes it too difficult to feel good about anything. I for sure know