Changing the narrative from outcome to process helped me a lot.
I failed through a lot of competitive exams ,
I failed through a lot of interviews,
I failed at relationships,
Etc etc.
Every phase was just telling me " I am the output of my work".
I realized this late!
Truth is simple.
Remember you worked tirelessly , 2-3 years, for one particular goal and it didn't work out . Yes, that moment was awful. That time was hell. But what was the simple underlying truth there?
Some Things are not in your control.
Take control of the No control.