like i can only speak for myself but i truly don’t even hate men fr i just don’t care for them, i dislike many of them ill admit that but i feel like hatred requires energy and the most energy i put into men is removing myself from them
the “hatred” isn’t even hatred and more of an indifference but when you have the whole world telling you that you’re the best thing since sliced bread and a minority comes along and says ‘you’re alright ig’ that refusal to fawn feels like oppression
is it valid that as a lesbian i feel little to no connection to pride month? being a lesbian often feels like belonging to a different realm entirely and honestly sometimes it’s hard to feel connected to the queer community as a whole