Make sure you're surrounded by cheerleaders
You know what they do?
They cheer you on
"I ran 5 km today"
"Wow! Good shit
Keep going man
With this pace someday you'll run 10 km or maybe 20 km"
"I made my first $200 MRR"
"F*ck yeah bro
Keep going
Next target $500"
Vs people who are jealous or just not excited for you:
"Only 5 km?? I can run 7 km"
See the difference? ๐ซ
That's why I always say:
๐ค Keep people around you who cheer you on and push you higher
- Friends
- Girlfriend
- Colleagues
- Family
- Business partners
You need people who genuinely celebrate your wins
And push you to go even higher
If someone constantly tries to make your achievements feel small...
โ Maintain your distance
3 days passed happily,
Something bad is gonna happen
If that's you ๐ค
That's called anticipatory anxiety
Why does this happen? ๐ค
Reason: Your brain has learned to expect danger
Imagine growing up in a household where things could be peaceful one day and turn into arguments the next
You never knew when someone's mood would change
So you learned to stay alert, even during peaceful moments
"Everything is too good right now"
That thought feels suspicious to you
Because you've never experienced safety for long enough to trust it
So...
Solution?
There are many solutions
But what worked for me is:
Try to have boring, peaceful days
Yes, wake up, exercise, do your work
If your family is fighting, move somewhere peaceful if you can
โ Give yourself a peaceful environment for a few months
Let your brain experience peace and calmness
Peace without constant drama
Within few months, repeated safe experiences will help you learn that calm doesn't always mean something bad is coming ๐ค
3 days passed happily,
Something bad is gonna happen
If that's you ๐ค
That's called anticipatory anxiety
Why does this happen? ๐ค
Reason: Your brain has learned to expect danger
Imagine growing up in a household where things could be peaceful one day and turn into arguments the next
You never knew when someone's mood would change
So you learned to stay alert, even during peaceful moments
"Everything is too good right now"
That thought feels suspicious to you
Because you've never experienced safety for long enough to trust it
So...
Solution?
There are many solutions
But what worked for me is:
Try to have boring, peaceful days
Yes, wake up, exercise, do your work
If your family is fighting, move somewhere peaceful if you can
โ Give yourself a peaceful environment for a few months
Let your brain experience peace and calmness
Peace without constant drama
Within few months, repeated safe experiences will help you learn that calm doesn't always mean something bad is coming ๐ค
Why direction is more important than execution? ๐ค
You can reach your destination by train, bike, car...
Even by crawling ๐ซ
It's about the right direction
And that direction improves with knowledge and experience
๐ค Airbnb CEO Brian Chesky said:
"If no one notices you, launch again. We have launched 5 times"
Look at how f*cking crazy some companies started:
Nokia โ paper and rubber products
Lamborghini โ tractors
Sony โ tried selling an electric rice cooker
Look at them now ๐ซ
Start Launchโ Learnโ Adjustโ Launch again
Why direction is more important than execution? ๐ค
You can reach your destination by train, bike, car...
Even by crawling ๐ซ
It's about the right direction
And that direction improves with knowledge and experience
๐ค Airbnb CEO Brian Chesky said:
"If no one notices you, launch again. We have launched 5 times"
Look at how f*cking crazy some companies started:
Nokia โ paper and rubber products
Lamborghini โ tractors
Sony โ tried selling an electric rice cooker
Look at them now ๐ซ
Start Launchโ Learnโ Adjustโ Launch again
Why do dads rarely spend money on themselves? ๐ค
1. They see themselves as THE PROVIDER
They can spend $2,000 on their kid's college expenses without thinking twice
But when it comes to buying $100 shoes for themselves
They think 10 times
They were taught to be tough, endure discomfort, and put their family first
2. They confuse self-sacrifice with being a good father
They believe a good father always puts his family first
Even if it means putting himself last EVERY SINGLE TIME
So...
What's the solution? ๐ค
If you're a son watching your dad do this, start here:
โ 1. Help him save 5% of his income every month
Not for bills
Not for emergencies
Just for himself
โ 2. After a few months, help him spend that 5% money on something he wants
A new shirt, better shoes, a gadget, or something he's wanted for a long time
Even if he doesn't NEED it
Why? ๐ค
โ It's to build a habit that:
โข He can spend money on himself
โข He can deserve good things
Why do dads rarely spend money on themselves? ๐ค
1. They see themselves as THE PROVIDER
They can spend $2,000 on their kid's college expenses without thinking twice
But when it comes to buying $100 shoes for themselves
They think 10 times
They were taught to be tough, endure discomfort, and put their family first
2. They confuse self-sacrifice with being a good father
They believe a good father always puts his family first
Even if it means putting himself last EVERY SINGLE TIME
So...
What's the solution? ๐ค
If you're a son watching your dad do this, start here:
โ 1. Help him save 5% of his income every month
Not for bills
Not for emergencies
Just for himself
โ 2. After a few months, help him spend that 5% money on something he wants
A new shirt, better shoes, a gadget, or something he's wanted for a long time
Even if he doesn't NEED it
Why? ๐ค
โ It's to build a habit that:
โข He can spend money on himself
โข He can deserve good things
How people gonna buy in 2027 ?
1984, there was only 1 Amazon
Now there are thousands of them
- Everyone is building a dropshipping store
- Every creator is becoming a seller
- Everyone has a side project
- Everyone has an online business
๐ค So how are people actually going to decide what to buy?
In this era of endless options
People are going to buy from people
"YES... Creator-Led Economy"
๐ฃ๏ธ: People will buy from someone who has opinions about something
" Your opinion will sell your product in the future "
People will check opinions on:
- Reddit
- Quora
- X
- Reviews
- YouTube
And then buy based on what other people say
What there favourite creator say
๐งโ๐ฆฑ: So... what should I do?
๐ฃ๏ธ: Don't learn swimming while drowning
Learn now
- Learn influence marketing
- Learn creator-led business
- Learn better storytelling
- Learn better communication
- Learn how to connect with an audience
- Learn people skills
Because when everyone can sell
โ Trust becomes the real advantage
How people gonna buy in 2027 ?
1984, there was only 1 Amazon
Now there are thousands of them
- Everyone is building a dropshipping store
- Every creator is becoming a seller
- Everyone has a side project
- Everyone has an online business
๐ค So how are people actually going to decide what to buy?
In this era of endless options
People are going to buy from people
"YES... Creator-Led Economy"
๐ฃ๏ธ: People will buy from someone who has opinions about something
" Your opinion will sell your product in the future "
People will check opinions on:
- Reddit
- Quora
- X
- Reviews
- YouTube
And then buy based on what other people say
What there favourite creator say
๐งโ๐ฆฑ: So... what should I do?
๐ฃ๏ธ: Don't learn swimming while drowning
Learn now
- Learn influence marketing
- Learn creator-led business
- Learn better storytelling
- Learn better communication
- Learn how to connect with an audience
- Learn people skills
Because when everyone can sell
โ Trust becomes the real advantage
0 โ 1
- Where all the confusion starts
- Where you start doubting yourself
- Reckless nights with no money
- The hunger to become profitable
- The madness to believe in yourself when nobody else does
- Being delusional enough to keep going
- Holding a straight face while drowning in debt ๐ซ
And trust me, it's all gonna be worth it
Because one day, you'll meet your friends at social gatherings
Some are fat because they have no time for their health
Some are driving the same old car they've had for years
Some are still paying off their house loans
And you'll realise something
You have time
You have energy
You have money
You have more control over your life
You don't have to depend on your boss's mood to feel happy
No last-minute work requests ruining your weekends ๐ค
That's the real reward
So...
Repeat after me
"Making money by working for myself is worth more than working for someone else" ๐ค
0 โ 1
- Where all the confusion starts
- Where you start doubting yourself
- Reckless nights with barely any money
- The hunger to become profitable
- The madness to believe in yourself when nobody else does
- Being delusional enough to keep going
- Holding a straight face while drowning in debt ๐ซ
And trust me, it's all gonna be worth it
Because one day, you'll meet your friends at social gatherings
Some are fat because they have no time for their health
Some are driving the same old car they've had for years
Some are still paying off their house loans
And you'll realise something
You have time
You have energy
You have money
You have more control over your life
You don't have to depend on your boss's mood to feel happy
No last-minute work requests ruining your weekends
No asking permission to live your own life
That's the real reward
So...
Repeat after me
"Making money by working for myself is worth more than working for someone else" ๐ค
You can't fix everything
Yes..
All problems are not designed to be solved ๐ซ
Some problems are meant to be there
๐ In Tom and Jerry
If Tom kills Jerry, now the owner doesn't need Tom
He will become homeless
He will get no food
No comfortable life
So Tom just acts to chase Jerry but never actually kills him
So..
Don't be frustrated by
- This road has potholes
- My teenage kids don't listen to me
- Why can men walk topless, but not women
- etc.
Some things you can't solve, they are there because they need to be there ๐ค
*Excluding your actions
The only thing you can control is your actions
So..
โ๏ธ When you're bombarded with chaos and emotions
Just take a deep breath and ask
"Can I do something about it?" ๐ค
If the answer is NO
Then smile and focus on what you can do
So..
โ Repeat after me
"All problems are not designed to be solved"
When You Don't Know
'What to Do?'
Do This ๐
There are too many options
- Dropshipping
- Affiliate marketing
- Crypto
- AI agents
- Freelancing
- And 100 other fancy side hustles
So what should you do?
โ Test everything rapidly
Why?
Because in the process, you'll learn:
- Storytelling
- Marketing
- Sales
- Persuasion
- Offer psychology
- And much more
While testing, you'll notice something
Some things feel like pushing a truck uphill (hard things)
Others come naturally to you
You learn faster, enjoy the process, and get better results (Easy things)
THAT'S your direction (domain/niche)
So what next?
โ Master it
Just search:
"Top 10 people in _________"
- Follow them
- Read their books
- Study their work
See how they monetise their skills
So..
Let's summarise this in one line
TEST โ DISCOVER โ MASTER โ Monetize ๐ค