Anytime my dad goes through though times I tell him « don’t worry it will be okay »
And he replies with a « why are you so sure of yourself. Always optimistic »
Well that’s my mindset, that’s how I’m training my mind
Remember your mind controls your body
For me, what I'll teach my kids is that being churchy should be the least important criterion in finding their spouse.
And no bloody pastor or seer can see better than me and my wife.
Religion has ruined many homes and made many people choose the wrong spouse.
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A must watch video and share for others to drop their views. Disturbing video showing how a lecturer was caught when having sxzz with his student..
Actions like this must stop in our various institutions..
To every married man.
Every penny that your wife and children spend MUST come from you.
Even to the last drop of water.
That's why you're a man, husband and father.
It doesn't matter if your wife is making her own money, or makes more money than you do.
If you have a wife that is supporting you financially, see it as a blessing or privilege, more than your right.
That's why you as a man, can order your wife to stop working and sit at home.
And she can't do same to you.
If you do not have this type of mindset and mentality as a man, please do not marry a wife.
End.
If you approach her...
Questions she'll interrogate you with:
What do you do?
How old are you?
Why are you single?
Do you always do this?
Why aren't you using online dating like everyone else?
You'll hear them a lot.
Best Responses:
When I go through tough times, need someone to talk to, I know two of my guys that I call. When my head is full, I know these guys are always ready to listen, and in less than 30 minutes, once we talk, no matter what I’m going through, I’ll laugh and get my spark back. We all need friends like this.
A chick I’m talking to invited me to her gym for a session.
On getting there, she introduced me to few of her friends & we had a light workout together.
One day, she posted one of her friend’s picture & handle on snap, you know how girls hype themselves up.
I added the friend because I find her attractive. We started talking. I told her who I was. She said she remembers me & knows I have something going on with her friend.
Fast forward few days later, I invited her over to my place for us to chill & vibe.
She agreed. She came over & we had fun.
Was at my sister’s wedding yesterday, my uncles started telling me to settle down and start a family. I was like I’m still looking for money, one said you have money, who told you that chief? One of them said after he married, things got better for him. Told him, if he didn’t get married, things would still have gotten better, we laughed over it.
Then the one that kinda left a message in my heart was when I told one of my uncles I heard he married at age 39, he said he rejects it for me. That he will be 60 this year and his first child is still in school, he said if he was a government worker, he’d be retiring this year, where will he get money to take care of the kids school fees? That this age should be his resting phase, I get that part, and it hit deeply.
After hearing all of this and thinking deeply, knowing fully well that at the end, we all will have to settle down, I’ve come to the conclusion that I’ll not be marrying anytime soon because I need to make more money, thank you.🙂↔️