@SoulShine3979 I think the biggest shift happens when you stop asking, "Why don't they choose me?" and start asking, "Why am I trying so hard to be chosen by someone who's unsure?"
@_Chemist1 Pattern recognition becomes valuable when it's paired with humility. Sometimes your intuition is right. Sometimes your own wounds are completing the pattern. Learning the difference changes everything.
@Lammkotlett1 So true. We spend so much time imagining the person we'll become that we forget they're being shaped by the version of us making today's decisions.
@_Chemist1 I've learned this the hard way. For years I explained away every red flag because I wanted to believe the best in people. Eventually you stop calling your intuition "overthinking" and start seeing it as information.๐ค
.
maybe the soul still longs for periods of quiet
โช๏ธwe've become uncomfortable with not being stimulated
โช๏ธwhen did quiet start feeling like wasted time?
๐good night
@firstladyships i really appreciate this perspective, LaShonda. it's comforting to remember that awareness gives us a choice, even if we didn't have one in the beginning ๐ซถโจ๏ธ
.
human beings often confuse
what feels familiar with what feels true
โช๏ธthe hardest beliefs to question are the ones you never chose
โช๏ธyou inherited them
@heartfelt_2 i love the blueprint analogy. we spend so much time trying to fix ourselves before realizing we were following someone else's map ๐ค๐
@_Chemist1 yes.. and questioning a belief isn't betraying your past.. it's giving your future a chance to exist ๐ค thank you for your perspective, Samrah ๐