Someone once said to me, 'if you can fight, argue & struggle with siblings from the same parents in the same house, of course you'd have times when you struggle with someone from different parents, background & orientation etc' and crystallized it well for me.
Saying that you can't cross a certain line is a hoax especially in regards to people you love .They will cross that line and at some point you have to be accomodatative.
One of the architects of the 1994 Berlin conference facilitated by the UN was a Kenyan anthropologist. After the conference she observed that women who attended came back to renegotiate power & access to capital/1
UPDATE FROM THE FAMILY: Asad Khan is due for dialysis this evening.Everytime they do a dialysis,he requires FIVE pints of blood.Right now they have ONE. Please share so that blood can be donated. O+ or A+ Avenue Hospital ICU. Patient:Asad Khan
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A woman will shout about how she's tired of feeding and living with an irresponsible man,but won't mention he quietly paid her fees, dowry, *all bills*, for years, until he lost his job 3months ago and asked her to help pay 5k monthly towards food while he STILL handled the rest.
Kenyan men are expressive. You can see it in their male friendships. How they talk, how they buy beers for one another, or how they call each other boss to boost their morale.
To see your society for what it is, you need to stop internalizing American way of life as ur own.