It’s called "reactive abuse." Pushing a man into a corner, attacking his insecurities, constantly manufacturing chaos, and the split second he loses his cool and reacts, you pull out the victim card and completely absolve yourself of the provocation. We hold men accountable for their reactions, but completely ignore the women who engineered the breakdown.
It was hard for me to wrap my brain around, genuinely took 28 years but some people just cannot face themselves, they would rather make an enemy out of literally everyone they’ve ever known instead of just admitting wrong doing
This is so infuriating because then they’ll turn around and tell you that black people own nothing because we dont make the right investments meanwhile theyre literally stealing from us. This should be bigger news & all of the black people in powerful positions should step in