All the good things I have in my life right now are based on plans I made 10 years ago. A decade will pass quicker than you think. And you will pay a steep cost by not planning for that date.
If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.