@Ciselaktimur Veya senin formüle ettiğin gibi sorayım. En başta iki alternatif “gerçekliğe” ilişkin önden bilgin olsun: yani yapay ve doğal olmak üzere iki elmas yüzük var ve en başta sana sunuluyor.
Hangisinden “gerçekten” etkilenirsin?
@Ciselaktimur Bir erkek sana -ve hatta diyelim ki evlendiğin erkek- bir elmas taş yüzük aldı. Hatta alyansın olsun bu. Sonradan öğrendin ki o elmas taş doğal değil, yapaymış. Nasıl hissedersin/etkilenirsin?
@Ciselaktimur Estagfurullah damgalamak ne haddime.. Bu yazdıklarınızı okurken benim de aklıma İslam tarihinden bir olay gelmişti, yukarıdaki örneğe çok benzer. Link bırakayım.
https://t.co/Qi4S2i1p7X
@Ciselaktimur “diyorum hepimizin bir gizli adı olsa gerek
belki çocuk ve ihtiyar,belki kadın ve erkek
hepimiz, herbirimiz gizli bir isimle adaşız
yoksa şimdiye kadar hesapların tutması lâzımdı
hayatımıza kendi adımızla başlardık
bilmediğimiz bu isim, hesaptaki bu açık
belki dilimi çözer”
@kromem2dot0 Thanks for your reply. I asked because Muhammad himself also has a saying reported by his companions the same meaning (and close enough wording) with your quotation.
Highly ambitious men need women who can love them through the times when they must disappear into themselves to unlock the next threshold of their becoming.
Such men are rarely chasing success alone. they want psychic expansion, spiritual transformation, mastery, financial sovereignty, emotional command, and the transcendence through levels he was born in.
Being with such a man requires transformation. You will be left alone for long stretches, because both of you are being summoned into higher versions of yourselves. His solitude becomes the furnace of his becoming, and your solitude becomes the chamber in which your own interior life is forced to mature.
Ordinary people will look at this and call it neglect, or emotional starvation, because they understand love only through constant access. But in relationships like this, love is measured by growth, support and the mutual refusal to let each other remain small.
There is tenderness here, but there is also pressure. Both people are building themselves, building each other, and building the life that will one day exceed them both.
Mold for making ceramic plaques depicting an erotic scene, Isin-Larsa/Old Babylonian periods, 2000-1600 BC
The woman drinks beer from a reed straw whilst engaged in a sexual act.