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[HONOR South Africa @HonorAfrica]

You can WIN the HONOR 600 — so be part of the 6 reasons why to buy the all new HONOR 600 Series! 🚀⁣⁣
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🤔 Tell us what colours does the HONOR 600 series come in?
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👉 Drop your full answer in the comments.⁣⁣
Use the hashtag #HONOR600Series to validate your entry.⁣⁣
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Good luck, everyone! 🙌⁣⁣
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[#Kgantsho @RayteeVixen]

@HonorAfrica Orange
Golden White
Black
#HONOR600Series

[#Kgantsho @RayteeVixen]

@blacklabelsa I spotted 11 differences
#madeforchampions
#fifaworldcup

[Carling Black Label ᅠᅠᅠᅠ @blacklabelsa]

Real Champions recognise the current campaign Ngud' ye
Carling. This one is for Champions behind the Champions! 🏆

 Cav' the difference here and QT using #MadeForChampions
and you might get a cold Carling in your DMs. 🍺 #FIFAWorldCup

[#Kgantsho @RayteeVixen]

@Yfm @pinpop #abantwanabacool @Yfm #pinpopahhhh @PinPop_ZA

[Y @Yfm]

Calling all the cool kids, this is your chance to score major aura points and win your share of prizes worth R500k!

Post a 15-30 second video showing us your cool with a Pin Pop, Use #AbantwanaBaCool, follow & tag @PinPop + @YFM🍭

Open to ages 7-25
Ts & Cs apply.

[MXDofficial @MXDofficial_]

Ayo fam! Meet MXD Tropical flavours! 🌴​

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[#Kgantsho @RayteeVixen]

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[Bernini @BerniniSA]

Tweet your #BerniniMimosaMoments using these emojis 🥂🍊to win 1 of 150 vouchers up for grabs. T&Cs apply.

[#Kgantsho @RayteeVixen]

@castlelitesa #NothingHitsLikeExtraCold @castlelitesa

[KingHenry👑 @KingHenri01]

THE SILENT TREATMENT IN RELATIONSHIPS: WHY IT’s ONE OF THE MOST TOXIC HABITS

We’ve all seen it (or done it). A disagreement happens, feelings get hurt, and suddenly… nothing. No texts, no replies, radio silence for hours or days.
That’s the “silent treatment.” It feels like a power move in the moment, but it quietly destroys connection. Let’s unpack exactly why it’s so damaging.

First, clarify what it actually is:
The silent treatment isn’t “I need space to cool down.”
It’s deliberate withdrawal of communication used to punish, control, or avoid accountability. A healthy pause has an end date and a plan to reconnect. Silent treatment doesn’t. It’s stonewalling with intent.

Why do people reach for it?
• it feels safer than vulnerability (“If I don’t speak, I can’t be hurt more”).
•It’s often learned from childhood or past relationships.
•In the short term, it gives a sense of control when you feel powerless.
But that “win” is an illusion.

Here’s the real damage it does to your partner:
Triggers intense anxiety. Their brain treats the silence like a threat, the same regions light up as with physical pain (yes, studies back this). Leaves them in emotional limbo, replaying every word, wondering if the relationship is over. Makes them feel invisible and unworthy. Self-esteem takes a hit.

It wrecks the relationship itself:
Communication, the oxygen of any partnership, gets cut off. Problems don’t get solved; they rot.
Builds massive resentment on BOTH sides. The silent person feels justified. The other person feels abandoned and eventually angry.
Slowly erodes trust. How can you feel safe with someone who disappears the second things get hard?

Long-term effects are brutal:
Repeated silent treatment is a recognized form of emotional abuse.
It creates emotional distance that’s hard to close. Intimacy dies in the quiet.
Over time it can contribute to anxiety, depression, or one partner emotionally checking out entirely.
Many couples who “suddenly” break up have been dying from accumulated silent treatments.

The scariest part? It’s self-reinforcing.
The person giving it learns “silence works, they chase or apologize first.”
The person receiving it learns “I have to walk on eggshells or over-apologize.” Both lose.

Healthier ways to handle conflict instead:
•Take a real time-out: “I’m overwhelmed. I need 30-60 minutes, then let’s talk.”
• Use “I feel” statements instead of silence or blame.
Repair quickly, even a simple “I’m still here, just need a second” prevents the spiral.
If it keeps happening, get a couples therapist. Seriously.

If you’re the one who gives the silent treatment:
It doesn’t make you strong. It makes you unavailable.
Breaking this habit is one of the highest-leverage things you can do for your relationship.

If you’re on the receiving end:
You’re allowed to say, “I won’t chase you through silence anymore. When you’re ready to talk, I’m here, but the stonewalling has to stop.

Bottom line:
Love isn’t proven in the easy moments. It’s proven when things get hard and you still choose each other. The silent treatment is the opposite of that choice. Choose words. Choose repair. Choose connection. Your relationship will either thrive on that… or quietly die from the opposite.

[Vaidehi Shukla @Vaidehi08321]

Minimize your kindness. This generation has no memory of the good things you do; your faults and mistakes are what they see.

[#Kgantsho @RayteeVixen]

Ocean Mall-Durban🧡
#TheRossaLife
#BrutallyBeautiful

[Brutal Fruit @brutalfruitsa]

Today, our bombshell lands for her final stop, and she’s here to make the most. ​
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Now tell us bestie.. Using #TheRossaLife where is the next Villa Rossa pop up heading ? Name the city and venue, and a refreshing 6-pack of L’Orange Rossa could be coming your way. #BrutallyBeautiful

[#Kgantsho @RayteeVixen]

@brutalfruitsa Ocean Mall-Durban🧡
#TheRossaLife
#BrutallyBeautiful

[Y @Yfm]

The Honor 600 Lite has landed in SA! Here's your chance to win 1 of 12 devices!

📲Tell us the colour of the new @HonorAfrica 600 Lite using #HONOR600LiteOnY + tag @yfm

If we pick you, visit HONOR’s socials, do your research, and stay ready to answer questions live on Y!

[#Kgantsho @RayteeVixen]

@Yfm @HonorAfrica Sprout Green #HONOR600LiteOnY
@Yfm @HonorAfrica

[#Kgantsho @RayteeVixen]

@FNBSA I love the @FNBSA connect Global travel esim Because The Coverage Connects to over 240 international mobile networks and when I went to Mozambique last year there was no need to get a mobile SIM from there I was connected from the time we crossed the border.
#LoveFNB

[Carling Black Label ᅠᅠᅠᅠ @blacklabelsa]

Ama-beer awafani bafethu!🍺Carling is crafted for a cold refreshment, with a crisp taste and perfectly balanced flavour that keeps the taste sharp from first sip to last. 🏆

Using #ChampionBeer QT what sets Carling apart from the rest, and open your DMs.

[#Kgantsho @RayteeVixen]

@blacklabelsa The awards it carries means everything. #ChampionBeer

[#Kgantsho @RayteeVixen]

@CoronaAfrica Corona #CoronaSunset