Let's be very clear.... People calling for the secession of the WC from SA are evil. They have sinister agendas that have been shining through boldly over the last years. Don't be fooled by their "clean governance" narrative. They are very much focused on retaining the status quo
being involved with an inconsistent lover sucks because you’re never fully sure when they’ll be able to show up for you. things always seem to run on their time or within their schedule or comfort. lack of compromise along with their inconsistency can make you feel super alone.
I recently paid off my car, & I will give it to my little cousin for free next month when I buy myself a new one.
I talk to my family a lot about small actionable things we can do to help the younger generation build wealth for themselves, & this is what that looks like for me.
Unhoused people are allowed to have preferences. They're allowed to not like the stuff you offer them. They know what they can/can't carry with them. They're allowed to tell you they don't need food, but need cash.
If you're earnestly giving to help them, listen to them.