@FRANKlESTElNN >Do you like thrifting
>Do you use wired headphones
>Do you use non apple smartwatch
>Do you own a tote bag
I'm not performative I'm just poor ๐ญ
@REISLITTLELIAR @sterblijuice It's so much easier to not give a shit, and as a trans woman I have a vested interest in labels being respected. There are so many people that would say "men can't be lesbians" and what you're thinking is trans men can't be, but they're really saying trans women can't
@REISLITTLELIAR @sterblijuice If a man said he was a lesbian, I'd be like "okay bro, still not going to fuck you" and walk away, or I might also embarrass myself to find I'd clocked as a cis man to be a trans woman, or a nb person, or a cis lesbian taking testosterone, or a butch etc.