Mutuals get notifications on, it's simple logic if we're moots I wanna hear what you wanna say and see what you rt.
Mutuals I have active dms with get rimmed
i actually fw shunran heavy bc he's not a typical "draw a flat girl and say it's a femboy" for goons, he's Just A Dude most of the time and it's even more clear in the manga
that's an honest-to-god slightly fruity twink and i respect him for it, been there done that