Dr Goodbar 🔴

[Pat Stedman | Dating & Relationship Coach for Men @Pat_Stedman]

It's so classic manosphere to have some retarded take like "if you woman nags you ONCE that means you're a beta and she settled!"

Firstly, this is a comfort not a desire test. She is trying to get you to care for her more. A woman who doesn't desire you won't be asking you to fold towels, she will be too busy to see you and out "with her friends" because she's not interested in your attention. Contrary to manosphere opinion, women rarely these days settle for men they don't desire (it's a trend that mostly died with Gen X as the hook up era for women extended past early 20s, internet extended number of perceived options, and women stopped needing providers). Yes, the intensity of the desire might have faded, and a little "soft" dread would improve her behavior short term, but it's not the main reason the relationship is deteriorating. It's deteriorating because she's overstressed and feels disconnected from her husband and uncherished. She responds predictably to this neglect with disrespect. It's something men and women almost universally have to work through in modern relationships, as familiarity leads to codependency and reduced masculine / feminine polarity.

Secondly and relatedly, relationships evolve over time and life circumstances affect dynamics and peoples' behavior. A woman can be deeply in love with you and treat you like a king, and then post-honeymoon phase find out that you aren't quite as present or proactive as she imagined; this nagging is a reflection of her disappointment. Or it's simply her own anxiety, which she mostly hid during dating, that is now revealing itself once you're living together - you are just now on the receiving end of her normal neuroticism. And this isn't even taking into consideration the inevitable impact of accumulated stress. If you have kids and busy work lives, it's almost certain at some point you are both going to default to coping mechanisms to deal with the negative feelings of being overburdened. These invariably push tasks onto your spouse, creating all sorts of frustrations and resentments in your marriage.

But you will almost never see this sort of honest and realistic depiction of relationships in this corner of the internet, because it gets you more engagement to act like you have everything figured out - even if in reality you're just some larping 20-something "alpha male" without a wife or kids whose relationship experience consists of flings, or a BPD e-girl too unstable to even date, who subsists on the internet attention she gets from sharing her romantic fantasies.

[autist @litteralyme0]

How I expect a single glass of water to perform against the 20 beers I had earlier

[Dr Goodbar 🔴 @RedPillDr]

@InshallahSZN I'm picking up what you're putting down 👀

[Hell is a teenage girl. @hrhbitch__]

PTA east girlies pls stay safe there might be a serial killer on the loose. Four female victims ranging from the age of 19-30 bodies were found and they were all burnt the fourth body was found yesterday so please be vigilant ❤️.

[🔴SonofEzra @Cirus_the_Grape]

I used to believe that pain was my enemy, now I see that pain, difficulty and trials have shaped me far more than good times have. Trees grow strong in storms and winds.

Pain is my best friend. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[Charles Louw @charles_l3]

On the path to getting back what I have lost.

[Fear Bavaria 🇿🇦🔴⚪ @InshallahSZN]

It can go very well. My shirty was with me through highs & lows. Would invest time & money to make sure I'm good when I wasn't. Now that I'm up, she gets what she wants. It can go badly, but what if it goes right? Only one way to find out.

[Dr Goodbar 🔴 @RedPillDr]

@InshallahSZN I thought you were 150 judging by your wisdom 🤣

Happy Birthday brother 🙏🏾

[Fear Bavaria 🇿🇦🔴⚪ @InshallahSZN]

The more I know about peoples lives the more appreciative I am of my own decisions & set up. I've made some damn good choices in life man. Shout out to my old man for making sure my head is on a swivel 24/7.

[Nathan @OIuwatosin]

For a while. I’ve stopped entering the new year thinking it’ll be the best. I just enter with a heavy sense of humility knowing it could go either way and life owes me nothing.

But I’ll put in my best and let God’s will be done

[Mlangeni 🇿🇦 @Nkosi_Dlamini_]

Love looks so easy in pictures,it's a different story when the cameras are off

[French OG | Your Dating and Relationship Guide @FrenchOG3]

Focus less on what you say than where it is coming from.

The message is not in the words but in the energy source.

[Fear Bavaria 🇿🇦🔴⚪ @InshallahSZN]

Men are getting weaker buying into this mental health shit. We do so much better when we are empowered with tools to overcome our problems rather than empowered to just talk about them.

[Dr Goodbar 🔴 @RedPillDr]

@InshallahSZN Big Moves 🔥

[Fear Bavaria 🇿🇦🔴⚪ @InshallahSZN]

- Managed one of the biggest events in my companies history post acquisition
- Leveraged my corporate position to get almost 1000 families access to free energy, food & disaster relief
- Got promoted to a national ************ position in a fortune 500 company

[Fear Bavaria 🇿🇦🔴⚪ @InshallahSZN]

A big contradiction, that I too believe, is the idea that you need to run through hos to get experience to deal with a wife. The brain & behaviour of a ho & a wife are two VERY different things. Going to a tennis academy when you're tryna be a footballer is nasty work.

[🅿️roud Austin Reaves Fan @NeptuniusIII]

“Ball up top”
“Charge it”
“It is what it is”
“Fuck it we ball”

- The 4 horsemen of men’s mental health

[JR Levert @JRho_11]

"Ball up top" is tweet of the year. No competition lmao