there's a difference between a person who hurts you by making a mistake, and a person who hurts you by continuing a pattern. mistakes can be forgiven.
patterns should be broken.
No disrespect to anyone, but God please don't send me another partner who doesn't know how to communicate, take accountability, or emotionally show up. I don't want a partner who's still battling their own issues, avoiding healing, depressed, or emotionally unavailable and refusing help. I don't want a partner who can't stand firm, speak with clarity, or take control of their own life.