behind someone who says “everything happens for a reason” or “it is what it is” is a person who can’t understand what they did to deserve all the pain and traumas gone through in their life
how they treat you, is how they feel about you. don’t try to decipher it or make excuses. it's simple, if they act like they don’t care, they don’t care, because if they truly liked you, they wouldn't put you in a position where you have to wonder why they act the way do