The man with the Midas touch - who has somehow been gifted the key to unlock the Goddess within. It was wonderful to reconnect, and finally get to wear the beautiful sets he'd picked out for me after months of anticipation 🥰
I have the confidence of a WASP, 6ft white male named Bartholomew III, former co-captain of the rowing team at [insert Ivy], head of M&A at [insert investment firm], with a fat trust fund and fat [redacted]. Instead, I’m a black woman beholden only to the institution of self.
A few years ago, I stumbled on Grown-ish, a coming-of-age show, and it taught me the power of enthusiastic consent. That single concept rewired how I date. Here is my recent piece on the beauty of mutual consent in dating: https://t.co/55G6hjM7G1
I will turn down money if I'm uncomfortable. I will turn down money if you have a rude, entitled, or predatory personality. I will turn down money if I'm not feeling up to it. I am not afraid to turn down money. I am a human being and not a sexy vending machine.