You want to marry into a family that doesn’t like you ke? You gonna see crazy. You will see signs & wonders. There’s nothing an inlaw that doesn’t like you won’t do. They will sabotage. They will exclude you & they will extend it to their grandchildren.
Have you ever told someone “I like your earrings /ring/watch/bag/dress etc and they try to gift it to you ? It is always awkward for me because I like it doesn’t mean I want it or want to obtain it.