So I slept with this guy once about fifteen years ago.
And that night he made sure to tell me he was super unavailable. Went on a whole thing about it. Girls who text too much, clingy behavior, all of that. Really made his position very clear.
I said bet and moved on. Took him at his word, respected his boundaries, directed my energy elsewhere. Exactly what he asked for.
That was fifteen years ago.
This man still messages me. Randomly. Out of nowhere. Asking to see me again. Fifteen years of occasional messages from the guy who sat across from me and explained at length why he wasn't available and didn't want anyone being clingy.
I just want to take a moment with the irony of that.
He was so concerned about girls texting too much that he has now personally been texting me on and off for fifteen years. That is a long time to still be reaching out to someone you were very clear you didn't want reaching out to you. He has been doing the exact thing he complained about other people doing except .......