I knew I was an avoidant from childhood when if a friend stayed over, I’d wake up w this feeling where I’d want them to go home and I’d feel so put off, weird and avoid them the next day. All day the next day I’d just be cold and stand offish. And if they didn’t leave, I’d just get mean until they did. I didn’t understand it at all.💀
i literally do not want a relationship with a girl . i have a man . i just want someone i can scissor from time to time .. basically like a bestie 😩✂️we can sneak wherever and scissor .. go to the mall .. scissor✂️.. out to eat ..scissor .. at the movies!✂️✂️✂️✂️✂️✂️✂️✂️✂️✂️✂️
Never give a man a second chance if he:
• Disrespected you. No excuses.
• Cheated. Trust doesn’t return.
• Was abusive, in any form.
• Lied again and again.
• Made empty promises.
• Ignored your needs, always.
• Took you for granted.
• Only wanted you when it was easy.
• Blamed you for his mistakes.
• Showed you his true character. Believe it.