@thisusertwtss Trauma makes you feel like you're responsible for other people's moods so you drain yourself and make sure they feel okay. Healing makes you realize it's not your responsibility to regulate their emotions, manage their insecurities, heal their wounds, and calm their inner storms
Please, please, PLEASE….if you’re not able to afford Christmas this year, DO NOT BEAT YOURSELF UP OVER IT. Rent is expensive. Gas is expensive. Groceries are EXTRA expensive. And just the BASIC NECESSITIES are barely affordable. Everything went up in price besides wages.