Stop letting people consume you. They didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.
People will exclude you because they don’t like you and then dislike you even more because you’re not bothered that they’re excluding you. Please stay excluded.
I’ve never understood why ppl expect you to accept things they wouldn’t tolerate themselves. It’s strange how some ppl set boundaries for themselves but ignore yours, acting like you should just deal with it.
Behind closed doors, I've done so much for people... real help, real support, no cameras, no credit. So when my name come up, don't just run with whatever story sounds good... Tell that part too! Tell them how I showed up when I ain't even have to. Tell them how I poured into people who couldn't pour back. Tell how I stayed solid, even when it wasn't returned. Don't be quick to speak on the surface, but quiet about what really went on. Keep it real all the way or don't speak on my name at all. ‼️
The narcissist picked you because you were extremely attractive to them. You had something they desperately wanted. You had light. And you were safe. That’s what people don’t understand. Narcissists do not attach themselves to people they see as weak, empty, or worthless. They gravitate toward people who are kind, patient, empathetic, loving, ambitious, loyal, forgiving, emotionally intelligent, and full of life.
If I’m being honest, I don’t know how to show up the same way a second time.If you hurt me in any way friendship or romantic relationship . I will heal from it, and I’ll most likely forgive you.But the version of me you hurt… the one who showed up with no doubts,
I think I’m going through a phase right now, like I’m finally coming to terms with actually letting a lot of things go…. Weather it’s friends, family, relationships, feelings, fears, just any and everything. it’s literally time for new beginnings, with new chapters that bring happiness, peace, love & good memories. it’s just time to move on with my life.
I like being the way I am, a little distant from everyone, direct when necessary, with a serious face, I don't talk to just anyone, nor do I try to fit in where I don't want to be, and the truth is I am calm and at peace like this
No sad shit but adulthood is so lonely. You can be a great friend to everybody but when you down and out and going through things who there for you? Truly an eye opening experience but noted.