a girl on tiktok said “if you wanted me to speak more highly of you then perhaps you should have treated me better...you don't get to narrate MY story of MY experiences with you". felt that.
y’all are terrified of initiating conversation after conflict. i’m not your mother. i’m not whatever ex that used to blow up on you. i’m an adult that wants to hear you, be heard, and heal what's happened between us. silence is not a resolution.