We created the problem of "what's the nature of reality", which is like asking "What does seeing look like?" What sort of answer could have significance if - once we found it - we couldn't tell all the rest of reality about it?
Everybody has a Softening story and they're all the same story, and if you're under fifty you got it the way I got it, in a classroom, off a filmstrip. A cartoon drop of gravy in a hard hat named Pip. A man in a lab coat saying the word abundance about eleven times.
TYhey become the victim. 🔺How a narcissist erases you.Tou become the problem.
Yhey attack your reaction.
Tou hold on to logic.
Yhey distort reality.
Tou bring up the facts.
Yhey deny it.
Tou confront them.
hey hurt you.