Some of you hat€ the truth, you hat€ when the truth is being told because you are bound by the circle of what you are told to believe. You don't want to think outside the box.
As a man Why would you seek validation from another man who doesn't give a F about you? If you know what you are carrying don't let anybody dictate your life for you. People say sh*t about you at the back who cares just focus like they never existed.
There is 2 types of wealth today that did not exist in the same way in the past
1)Time freedom - due to speed of growth of innovation from inception both founders and investors can achieve wealth and time freedom that no generation in history could achieve - its not about the house or things - most people poor or not have relatively the same experience now apart from whether they control their time
2)Relative status games - In the past a better home or a better car was actually better - no relative judgment needed. Today its more about branding and preference.
Is a Rolex better than a Apple watch?
Is a Mercedes better than a Tesla?
Is a house better than a hotel apartment?
Much more focus on perception than reality.
People are too focused on this as historically this showed an actual difference in living standard but today it does not
My personal thought is therefore that the focus should be on 1 and that for 2 you just do what you want.
Dont live a lie for others:
ie if you prefer convenience then live in the city
if you prefer quiet live in the suburbs
But dont buy a big house on the hill just because thats more "prestigious" or live in the city because its more expensive
Decisions related to 2 should be done void of money considerations - "This is how I want to live" as opposed to "I need to upgrade" thinking. Think about it from an absolute view-whats better for you not whats better relative to others.
When it comes to money individuals of diverse backgrounds can engage in economic activities and transactions without discrimination or bias based on religion or tribe. Money serves as a common medium of exchange that exceeds cultural, social, and religious walls.
One of the best decisions of my life is not accepting my limitations as my reality. Just when I realize I have no excuse not to make a difference. That decision to change the course of history has helped to shape my life today.
Then that individual should be reported to the police, it is the duty of police to enforce law and order.
The OHRALI, is pleading to all individuals to be law abiding and never to take laws into there hands, not matter what any individuals is accused off.
Let's promote peace by
Being a man is having the privilege to not be bothered about misogyny, its discourse, or its existence.
It is also having the privilege to think that those who talk about it are doing too much.
Dear @SonOfWar18,
I have taken time to read through your messages. Please read carefully as I try to explain certain things to you and to others that may learn from it.
First thing you & all young men should know is that once you break up with a lady after she left you for
Got to Onitsha everywhere was scanty, I took the risk night, and entered the last available bus heading to my destination, that was how I entered one chance😄 I saw real we*apons but God delivered me that day. I have not stopped night journeys I love night journeys🤣