You can't force someone to feel what you feel for them. Sometimes, you just have to accept that your heart chose them, even when theirs didn't choose you the same way. Accepting the truth hurts less than trying to convince someone to love you.
Wake up, listen to KEHLANI.
Get off work, listen to KEHLANI.
Having a bad day, listen to KEHLANI.
Getting ready for bed, listen to KEHLANI.
the point is, just stream KEHLANI (the album)
two good reasons to be with someone:
1. you love them-as-them
not what they do for you, but who they are—the person you have the privilege to see, spend time with, and get to know
2. you love the way they love you, and what it brings out in you
To be loved is to be seen.
To be loved is to be heard.
To be loved is to be understood.
To be loved is to be considered.
To be loved is to be protected.
To be loved is to be supported.
To be loved is to be worth the inconvenience.
the most honest information you will ever receive about your place in someone’s life will not come from what they say. it will come from what they do not do. the repair they never attempt. the effort they never make. the space between you that keeps widening while they stand on their side of it and do nothing.
Pick the man who calms your heart, not the one who keeps you guessing. Peace, respect, and consistency will always matter more than temporary excitement. If what he does doesn’t line up with what he says, trust what you see.
Love after 25 is different.
You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies.
You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
One of the scariest things about dating is you could be 100% in, committed, and loyal, while the other person is using you to get over someone, as a placeholder, or kill boredom.