There is a very scary and toxic way that SA men view us as women. This topic is never truly dissected without them defending themselves. Thereโs an ownership and disposability. Itโs very uncomfortable and strange ๐ฅด๐
I SBWL uku trenda for whatever reasons and people end up asking for my banking details to donate and I wake up sitting on +R100 000 and still counting. Bese kuba khona laba who question ukuthi why people are donating for me, bese abanye bayephendula bethi "You are not forced".