@maxvayshia@Theamba36541771 Your decision and that of your siblings stood because y'all are grown adults. In the case where the marriage is young and the children are still very young; the extended family decides where their son is buried.
@maxvayshia It is a different situation in my culture. The man's family decides where their son is buried, not the wife. She has no such authority especially if the man is still young. On the other hand, if the kids are grown, then they can make the decision. But for a young wife, it is a NO
Although it is said that your wife and immediate family you build with her comes first before anyone else. But if you ignore that your father's mud house, that same old house you grew up in, you didn't renovate it or rebuild it, but left it like that while you and your wife enjoy the mansion you built in the city, even your dad doesn't know you own a house in the city.
Now you're dead, your wife doesn't want you buried in the house you built nor be buried in your father's compound(the mud house). It is after your death you would realize how stupid you have been.
@atewolabala11@yabaleftonline NO! The issue here is that she wants to enslave her husband's sisters. It is actually a silent competition they are having over the young man.
@effing65098@okpeyowa@yabaleftonline What stops her from waking up to make food for her kids? Are they maids to her and her kids? Una too dey enable bad behaviors for this country.
@ifedayoeri@yabaleftonline Moral of the story should be to get rich and successful yourselves. Una dey forbid success? Why must your success be tied to a man. Leech mentality.
@DONJAZZY Good morning @DONJAZZY (SUPREMOS)... My name is Moses Aikhoje, i am a fashion designer based in Lagos &i work from home. My industrial sewing machine is currently blown out and i have been out of operations for weeks now. Pls help
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1034764301 FCMB
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@DONJAZZY Good morning @DONJAZZY (SUPREMOS)... My name is Moses Aikhoje, i am a fashion designer based in Lagos &i work from home. My industrial sewing machine is currently blown out and i have been out of operations for weeks now. Pls help
Acc Details:
1034764301 FCMB
Amount: N580,000
@Tobs_jay@lifestories30@withifeoluwa Leave am make e dey cap. Someone left his boyfriend she claimed to love because of a supposed BIG MAN who was already married. Destroyed the man's marriage and jilted her lover because of greed.
You lots will never envision yourselves making it big in your career or stepping up in life. Na to dey pray for one ODOGWU somewhere that doesn't exist to come marry una.
It doesn’t always work like that oh☹️☹️
When I was working in the bank, one of my colleagues was dating a big man who happened to be one of our major customers. At the time, she still had her boyfriend so we all advised her to just chop the man’s money while maintaining her relationship. 😭
Six months into the relationship, she came to work one day and told us the man wanted to leave his wife and marry her we screamed.. We told her not to make that mistake because we were convinced that if he could leave his wife for her, he could also leave her for someone else.
She married him exactly one year into their relationship.
Fast-forward to when she had her first pregnancy, the man sponsored her to USA to have their first baby. she sent us chocolate and whenever I’m eating that chocolate, I feel like ntor 🥵😜was attached to it because imagined she listened to our advice? She for still dey do “next customer please with that red bank”
She has had her second child with the same man, got a brand-new car as a push present and her mum has travelled to the USA about five times now.
Omo, life don pass rich prince falling in love with village girl feem abeg..
Anytime I view her status, I’m always grateful that she followed her mind oh and never listen to us.