@whogabanywayew@mybabygoesawayy She literally said she’s so overwhelmed for her feelings for the children that her clothes fell off, not sure how we are supposed to interpret that
I took notes from women & learned to treat my body like a temple early. Plus, growing up hearing women bragging about how men can’t say they hit inspired me. I’d rather be (& usually will be) in a room w/ men that WANT to fuck me vs being in one with a lot of men that DID.
Absolutely true. Everything boils down to repetition and removing consciousness from the task. You should repeat something so much that you don't even think about doing it, to the point where you have to put in effort not to do it. Just like you don't think to walk; you just walk. Thinking is only needed to stop. You find learning difficult because you are conscious about it, and consciousness is the biggest enemy in trying anything.
Why? Because the things we most need to learn, like driving, swimming, or starting a new job, are the ones that make us afraid. Consciousness shines a spotlight on that fear, making you hesitate, overthink, and tense up. While consciousness gives you awareness, it is best suspended when you want to learn anything new.
You don't have to fight against the enemy or the task at hand. You only have to fight your reluctance and hesitation. Fear fades when action becomes automatic.
As an adult, you're going to get the urge to return to hobbies, like reading, that you used to enjoy as a kid... it is very important that you do so, and start doing things that bring you joy again.
Every country has an energy. And that energy rewires you whether you notice it or not. People move to Japan and become minimal. People move to Mexico and their entire relationship with time softens. People move to New York and suddenly they can't sit still. Your personality is far more malleable than you think. We treat it like something fixed, but new surroundings give you new defaults. New pace. New habits. New values absorbed through proximity instead of effort. You're not just the average of the 5 people closest to you. You're the average of the 5 places, the 5 routines, and the 5 inputs you're exposed to most. Your commute shapes you. The weather shapes you. Every space you occupy is voting on who you become. That's why I believe choosing where you live is one of the most important decisions you'll ever make. More important than your job title. Maybe more important than your five-year plan. Because the place shapes the plan. The place shapes your energy, your habits, your relationships, your default state. Get the place right and half of the other decisions start making themselves. Get it wrong and you'll fight yourself every day.