PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT 🙈
THAT’S VALKING, BIG ALABI’S RIGHT-HAND MAN AND ONE OF HIS DEADLIEST GUYS.
THIS ONE DOESN’T FORGIVE. BIG ALABI MIGHT STILL FORGIVE YOU BASED ON YOUR REPUTATION, BUT I DON’T THINK VALKING HAS A FORGIVING SPIRIT BECAUSE OF HIS LIGHT SKIN.
YOU LITERALLY DON’T KNOW THIS MAN, AND THAT’S BECAUSE HE DOESN’T FLAUNT HIMSELF.
FUN FACT: Samson Dauda’s wife, Marlena Gustowska, is also his head coach. 💕
They met at a gym in 2012, got married in 2023, became his head coach in 2024 and helped Samson win Mr. Olympia that same year.
Marlena is the first woman to coach a Mr. Olympia champion. 👏🏽
I think we men hate to admit that having a woman that constantly bills us actually makes us hustle harder and stay locked in.
Imagine a single man that only works for himself. No pressure to do more. No one depending on him. No real pressure pushing him to wake up every morning and chase the bag harder.
We men know this secret, we just choose to keep it to ourselves.
Same reason I believe early marriage can help young men.
Waiting till 35 before getting married won’t automatically make you richer. Dangote, Otedola and many other successful men took on serious responsibilities very early and still built empires.
The man who slept with his best friend’s fiancée has finally faced them.
His friend just got back from Europe.
He didn’t hide.
He didn’t run first.
He went to the father’s house and asked to sit with both of them.
He apologised.
Thanked them for years of treating him like family. Then he put the messages and the recordings on the table.
They listened.
They understood what had happened between him and his best friend's fiancée.
His friend lost it and lunged at him.
He didn’t fight back.
The father and the staff pulled them apart.
He told his friend he wasn’t expecting forgiveness and that he would leave the company. He also said he wanted him to know the whole truth, and what kind of woman she had shown herself to be.
Then he knelt and asked the father for forgiveness. He told the old man that he had treated him like a second son, and he had repaid that by stabbing his only son in the back.
The father listened, then told him to leave his house.
He left without another word.
After that, he has decided to change his number and decided to leave the country to start all over.
When he told his mother she broke down. She still blessed him and said she would pray for him, and that he needed to seek God’s mercy for what he had done.
That last part hit him harder than the punch that never landed.
Not just because he betrayed a friend, he also broke the trust of a man who raised him like his own son.
He came to me and I advised him.
He took the advice and he went and faced them like a man.
He showed the evidence.
He didn’t fight back.
He left the house when he was told to leave. Now he has to pack his life and move on.
That’s how you carry shame.
You don’t argue it.
You don’t dress it.
You own it, learn from it, face the consequences and keep moving.
AJD.