Nothing! Absolutely nothing! 😂
Even if you give them the peace of mind they always ask for, they'll still say you're being performative about it. Just do what you can.
Just do the one you can. If he genuinely loves you, even the little things you do will always be a way to his heart. 🌚
I think the most honest version of 'i love you' is 'i noticed.' i noticed you went quiet. i noticed you changed your hair. i noticed you laughed differently today. i noticed & i didn't need you to explain.
The person you marry will affect your deen, sleep, your confidence, your decisions, and your sense of reality.
Attraction is not enough of a reason.
When someone cares about you, they care about the impact they have on you.
What to actually look for:
Taqwa in action.
We are still seeking for assistance.
Please I beg you in the name of Allah to repost or contribute to this cause of saving a friend of mine whose wife is in critical condition.
Amount needed-₦1.4m
Amount realized-₦732,950
Shortfall-₦667,050
Jazakumllahu Khairan as you do.
The superiority complex some self-help readers have needs to be studied.
You read three books about waking up at 5am and suddenly you��re looking down on people who read fiction like we’re illiterate villagers discovering fire.
My sister in Islam, the whole point of fiction is entertainment.
Acts of service men are dangerously attractive.
Fixing problems, making sure you’ve eaten, charging your phone, carrying your things… that’s romance to me.
a reminder, guys. the takbeer continues till Asr on Saturday. keep repeating it to earn the reward.
Allāhu Akbar Allāhu Akbar Allāhu Akbar, lā ilāha illa-Allāh, Allāhu Akbar Allāhu Akbar, wa Lillāhil Hamd.
You cannot:
Work full time, raise children, keep a spotless home, show up fully in your marriage, maintain friendships, stay fit, build wealth, read books, pursue hobbies, serve only home cooked meals, answer every email, and still make the 3:30 school pickup.
That standard was created to keep you exhausted and blaming yourself. Let it go.
No matter how much you love your person, you need to be your own person.
Have your own hobbies, your own friends, your own time, your own fun.
Endeavor to be your own person.
My brother posted a sermon on his whatsapp story around 1am this morning(his last post) and died barely 6hrs later. If you are seeing this and you are in or around Offa, can you please attend his Janaiza immediately after Juma'ah service at owode Central Mosque, Offa? May Allah accept his return, forgive his shortcomings and grant us all the fortitude to bear the loss and a beautiful ending. Aameen 🤲